There are lots of attributes they say a leader should have.
Ignore them.
Those attributes are the seasoning that gives the meal a pleasant flavor. As a leader, concern yourself with the proper nutrition first, then spice it up. Otherwise, it is empty calories and wasted effort.
To be effective, know your personal purpose and values and live them. Then, have a vision, passion, and action surrounding what you’re leading.
Miss any of these ingredients and you have mush.